Oh Phanta5y, I am so glad that you will be going to the doctor
(thank you Lord, Amen). Even if the examination turn out nothing
serious or just a temporary condition, at least you will have a
peace of mind. Hearing it from the expert beats guessing it, right?
Can you get another adult, like a relative to accompany you, just
to give you emotional and spiritual support? Or you may be wrong.
Your mum may go with you. Explain to her that accidents happened,
even in sports.
Even if it was mischief on your part, but the incident has
happened. No point in pointing finger so just make sure your well
being is being looked after. And I am sure you will learn something
from this. I have always told my son that it is okay to make
mistake. The most important thing is to learn from it. Some
mistakes can be expensive though so we have to remember that we are
the beneficiaries of our own actions. Even as adults. You know,
whatever parents teach their children, it apply to them as well
because responsibilities and attitudes are responsbilities and
attiudes. Age has nothing to do with it, i.e. no matter what age
group we are, we have to shoulder these.
I hope I am a good mum. Actually, my son and all my friends think
so. But I am no angel, I have my off days too but I practice self
control or what the new age say "anger management". But I believe
there are always two sides to the coin. For you, you may grow up to
be very independent and street smart with your parents too busy to
fuss around you. Because I am always there for my son, he may be
less independent. But I believe eventually, everything will fall
into place. We humans are resilient and adaptable. Agree?
Okay, I think I have written too much. You may really feel this is
Aunt Agony alright!!! You stay well okay? It is good to have fun
but it is important to keep well too......the body and the
mind.
Cheers and have a great weekend!!!
